As I am sure that those of you on facebook know, this month everyone is counting their blessings. Each day people, including myself, are listing for the facebook world to see, all the things that they are thankful for. I figure any excuse to say thank you is a good one so I am happy to participate. However, I have seen a few snarky comments about the whole thing.
I guess it isn’t for everyone but one of the comments got me thinking. It was something to the effect of “sick of reading all the things people are thankful for this month, when the eleven other months all they do is complain.” It’s not word for word but you get the idea. Well so did I! It couldn’t be more true. The fact that we are thankful any day is great, but the truth is that we should be thankful everyday. There is always something that is worthy of praise even on the days that are filled with the most clouds.
So I got to thinking that maybe a month of thanks is not enough. How about a year. Each day I am going to add another person, place or thing that I am thankful for. I am going to spend the next year of my life counting my blessings and sharing them with you.
Some of you may find it irritating after the first couple of posts and that is ok. I clearly can’t force anyone to read my posts. But my hope is that even one person would read each post and realize that there are reasons to feel blessed even when things seem dismal. I am a human being that struggles in life daily just like the rest of you. I have ups and downs and moments of insanity that push me to my breaking point and beyond. No matter how full my plate is and how crazy my day, I can still look around and find something to be thankful for. Every. Day. Without. Exception.
I pray that someone in need may read this and suddenly be able to open their eyes and have a different perspective on things. I pray that I may read this and spend a year counting my blessings to gain a true understanding for how wonderful my life is. I pray that each day the blessings become easier and easier to see and my eyes and heart would be open to see things that I didn’t before.
Since I started counting my blessings on November first with the rest of facebook, I am going to just recap those. Then each day I will add another one here. Feel free to check it out daily, weekly or at the end of the year if you want some heavy reading. Either way, I encourage you to count along with me, even if it’s just in your heart.
1. I am thankful for my faith. It is my strength when I am weak. It is the sanity when I am crazy and the hope when I am hopeless. My faith means everything to me and some are without any faith. I am grateful, thankful and truly blessed to have an amazing God that I believe in.
2. I am thankful for my children. They keep me young. They make me old and they make me smile and laugh in between. These two kids are exhausting and they stress me more than I care to be stressed. They bend me almost to the point of breaking on most days. Each night when I check on their sleeping little eyes, I tear up with all the joy and love that they have brought into my life.
3. I am thankful for my husband. He is my up, when I am down. My happy, when I am sad and my everything when I am nothing. Our marriage is work. It is hard work some days, easy on others and sometimes it all just falls into place without the blink of an eye. Every day is a journey together and I am grateful to have the most amazing friend to travel it with.
4. I am thankful that Brian and I have jobs in a time when money and jobs are scarce. We may not love what we do but at least we are doing. I am fairly certain that we would both prefer the job title millionaire to our current titles but none the less we are so fortunate to have the jobs that we do. We may complain from time to time but at the end of the day, or at least on payday, we are thankful to have a place to work.
5. I am thankful that my kids, as well as Brian and I, have health care coverage. I think this is something that many of us take for granted, but there are people out there that do not have the luxury of seeing a doctor when needed. Certain things are luxuries and a doctor visit should not be one of them. I am so grateful that we can care for our family and see a doctor when we need.
6. I am thankful for the noise that fills my house. The running, screaming, laughing, crying noise that means my kids live a full and happy life. The sound of there beds squeak as the jump into them and the giggles that follow make my day. No lies, sometimes I beg for peace and quiet but overall I couldn’t be without the sounds that these two make. The good, the bad and the ugly sounds; I am thankful for them all.
7. I am thankful to have a husband who tells me how much he appreciates me. He may not always show it, but hearing him say it is worth everything. I came home tired and blah from working and he put his arm around me and rubbed my neck. He thanked me for all that I do at home and away from home. Just what I needed! I am so thankful to have the husband that I do.
8. I am thankful for a game of hide and seek with my kids. There is nothing better than all four of us playing a game together. Laughing and being silly together is what makes me really appreciate all that I have. Perfect night!
9. I am thankful for the change in seasons. I love summer but couldn’t do it all year long. Seeing the leaves fall and the beautiful colors around me is incredible. Playing in the leaves with the kids is even better.
10. I am thankful for all of the men and women who have served this country. They do a selfless job that I could not do and I am grateful for them. They have the strength to fight for those of us that do not. I admire them all, and I am thankful for each one of them.
11. I am thankful to live in a country that enjoys the freedoms that we do. We are so blessed to enjoy the freedoms of education, religion, and speech just to name a few. Many of us take for granted all of these freedoms and don’t realize the price that was paid for them.
12. I am thankful for bed time songs. Singing to my babies before bed is the best part of every day.
13. I am thankful that I am able to care an cuddle my sick little boy. I hate to see him sick but I cherish the moments that I spend holding him and feeling how much he needs me.
14. I am thankful for goodnight kisses. Every night that I get to tuck my babies in is a blessing.
15. I am thankful for my family. I have grown to be the person that I am today as a result of the lessons I’ve learned from my family. The good, the bad and everything in between has made me me.
16. I am thankful for creepy alone time. This is a term Brian and I use for when either one of us is at home by ourselves. For me, it is a great chance to catch up on a million different things.
17. I am thankful for my in laws. I married Brian and gained an entire addition to my family that I couldn’t live without. I love each one like my own blood and I am blessed to have them.
18. I am thankful for my sister. She’s a pain in my butt most of the time and she drives me crazy, but no one knows me better and could be a better friend.
19. I’m thankful for forgiveness. It’s an art that is hard to master but we all deserve it and I try to practice it.
20. I’m thankful for snowflakes. Each one unique just like each of us. Looking at them up close is magical and seeing the blanket that they weave together is amazing.
21. I’m thankful for exhaustion. It means that I have lived today!
22. I am thankful for the tests that God gives me. Sometimes I pass, sometimes I fail… But there is always a lesson learned.
23. I’m thankful for my voice. Until you loose something it is hard to really appreciate it. I appreciate my voice!
24. I’m thankful for my church. I always feel so full of love and hope when I walk out of those doors on Sunday! It may not take long for the feeling to wear off sometimes but I can always go back for a refill next Sunday.
25. I’m thankful for quality time spent with each of my kids. Simply lying down for a nap with Cassidy means more to me than the world. Holding Jacob before bed and singing to him is what it’s all about!
26. I’m thankful for the look on my kids faces when they see snow covering the ground in the morning. Their excitement makes me feel young too!
27. I am thankful for my ability to cook well. I feel like I can really express my love for others through cooking. Thanksgiving is a great day for me to show my love.
28. I am thankful for my family and friends that joined our table for a feast today, as well as the ones that couldn’t make it. It was tight, but love filled the room and our hearts. I am grateful for so many things but these people are really what is matters most in my life. Happy Thanksgiving!
29. I am thankful to have plenty of food to eat and to serve my family. I think of those that have barely crumbs and I realize how incredible that it is that my children don’t go to bed with growling stomachs.
30. I am thankful for change. I love that life changes often without warning. I have been turned upside down so many times that I don’t even know what is up anymore. I still encourage and embrace the changes because they are all a lesson in disguise.
31. I am thankful for the giggles. The snickering when they say a funny word, usually a “potty” word. It just makes me giggle inside when I hear my kids with that honest and untainted giggle.
32. I am thankful for another month that has come and gone. Time really flies so fast anymore. I feel like I am busier each day, but the fact that time is moving means that I am living. That’s what it’s all about!
33. I am thankful for the sparkle in Brian’s eyes when he looks at me. I am far from perfect, but he looks at me like I am.
34. I am thankful for quiet time in the car. I drive to work and really enjoy the time alone to clear my thoughts and plan my days.
35. I am thankful for conversations with family that I don’t have often. It’s so wonderful to speak with a loved one that I haven’t had the chance to really enjoy in a while.
36. I am thankful for my coat. Some people do not have winter coats. I pull mine out as soon as the temperature hits the forties. It is something that most of us don’t think about, but if I didn’t have one, I’d never stop thinking of it.
Can’t wait to see what I can be thankful for tomorrow!